Is it others or us..........?

Assalamu alaikum It rarher us than others about our own musunderstandings,what we do, what we have helped others,what we are being jea;lous of others,what we are caring others,we loving others and what we have given to others and do not what are its opposite I do agree qith you that we should look deep down and face the reality and the dark side of our own soul.We should recognize our weaknesses as a challenge how to improve itMay Allah bless us and show us the right path Ameen Thanks a LOT FOR YOUR SHARING KNOWLEDGE.