To Christians: are we under Grace or not?

see, the thing about these people is, they'll just pick and choose what to actually follow from the bible. that's what religion does, it adapts to fit the preferences of society. for example, stoning is no longer acceptable. prejudice, however, has yet to die, so they still allow those parts to stand. needless to say, the idea of being "under grace" never actually appears anywhere in the new testament.